26 January 2012, 4:53 am
I'm 29 and the only relationship I can say I've REALLY had was with a guy I met online. We video chat online for roughly 8 months before I flew to meet him in san Francisco - I lived in New Zealand at the time and I stil think he is/was the love of my life. Things obviously ending but I would really like to meet someone else. I live in the gold coast of Australia now and find this place particularly superficial. I know I'm a bit "standoffish" of first but Im not as uptight as I appear. I don't however like to live in a delusional world where everyone gets along and accepts everything about a person. Anyhow, I'm at the point where I believe the problem is me. It has to be. At the same time I don't think what I'm looking for or interested in is overly ambitious. Phsyically, I think I'm slightly over weight but proportionate. I like to go out and try things at least once. I'm quite family orientated. And would like to meet someone that has similar types of qualities... I just don't think I've found that here. At the same time I'm not sire if that's because I have expectations of people greater than should be expected or not. Everyone seems to be a little too promiscuous for my liking. Is like to meet someone that is comfortable with the way they look without being overly promiscuous. I'll give you an example of what I think is overly promiscuous: the guy I met online seemed great except he liked to whack off and talk dirty to other guys online. Is like to meet someone that knows they're sexy, be comfortable enough to say they find other people sexy as well, but without the need to get naked and talk about sexual fantasies with these people they find attractive. ... Read More »